08-01-2018, 01:43 PM
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( friendship - easy ) — It is fairly easy to befriend Des, as his friendly and easy-going attitude often makes it easy to acquire a wide range of acquaintances. He never shies away from a new friendship, eager to have everyone he meets feel important enough to have someone, even if that someone is just plain ole' him. His friendships are strong, but sadly also extremely fragile at the same time. Despite having very little boundaries and being eager to even jump in front of a bullet for his friends, there are topics that are so fragile to Des that if they are broached with the wrong attitude, he won't hesitate to drop anyone he considers a friend. He is kind, but not weak, and has ever capability of beating someone up if he feels like it. Des is a bit of a rough character, with a foul mouth and who often engages in friendly banter with anyone and everyone he comes across, but he's a good man beneath it all who just wants everyone to feel wanted.
( romantic - impossible ) — It is very hard to get Des to engage in any romantic relationships due to multiple reasons. The first and biggest reasons stems from his underlying trauma regarding any sexual advances from anyone, and he views all romantic advances as possible warning signs that someone wants to use him again. He acts like he wears his heart on his sleeve, but in reality it is extremely guarded, and he'll never tell you something that he doesn't feel is unimportant to his being. It is, therefore, nigh impossible to have Des feel any sort of romantic attraction towards another individual unless he trusts them completely with his entire life. Anything less than that and, although he might have a crush, he will refuse to engage in anything. He is experienced in sex for rather sorry reasons, but extremely inexperienced in romance, although he is naturally a charmer and gentleman and a gentle lover. All romance plots must go by adomania first. This is an extremely picky area.
( familial - depends on circumstance ) — Des is extremely wary of any kinds of familial bonds given that they are far more serious than friendships, and perhaps even more serious than romances can be. He wants a family, to have someone he can look up to as a parental figure, and to take care of little kiddos that he can call his, but is afraid of being abandoned yet again once he finds them. He isn't impossible to convince, however, as he desperately wants someone to call his family despite his better judgement, and therefore will often see others as family without even realizing it. Adomania is heavily invested in finding these kinds of relationships for him.
( enemies - hard ) — It is very difficult to get Des to hate your character, as he has a very forgiving nature in hopes that others will change their ways. He is far from a push-over, but he won't call others anything more than rivals unless they convince him of a good enough reason to hate. This is usually if anyone tries anything funny with his family, or when they make any abusive/sexual advances towards him without his clear consent.
( friendship - easy ) — It is fairly easy to befriend Des, as his friendly and easy-going attitude often makes it easy to acquire a wide range of acquaintances. He never shies away from a new friendship, eager to have everyone he meets feel important enough to have someone, even if that someone is just plain ole' him. His friendships are strong, but sadly also extremely fragile at the same time. Despite having very little boundaries and being eager to even jump in front of a bullet for his friends, there are topics that are so fragile to Des that if they are broached with the wrong attitude, he won't hesitate to drop anyone he considers a friend. He is kind, but not weak, and has ever capability of beating someone up if he feels like it. Des is a bit of a rough character, with a foul mouth and who often engages in friendly banter with anyone and everyone he comes across, but he's a good man beneath it all who just wants everyone to feel wanted.
( romantic - impossible ) — It is very hard to get Des to engage in any romantic relationships due to multiple reasons. The first and biggest reasons stems from his underlying trauma regarding any sexual advances from anyone, and he views all romantic advances as possible warning signs that someone wants to use him again. He acts like he wears his heart on his sleeve, but in reality it is extremely guarded, and he'll never tell you something that he doesn't feel is unimportant to his being. It is, therefore, nigh impossible to have Des feel any sort of romantic attraction towards another individual unless he trusts them completely with his entire life. Anything less than that and, although he might have a crush, he will refuse to engage in anything. He is experienced in sex for rather sorry reasons, but extremely inexperienced in romance, although he is naturally a charmer and gentleman and a gentle lover. All romance plots must go by adomania first. This is an extremely picky area.
( familial - depends on circumstance ) — Des is extremely wary of any kinds of familial bonds given that they are far more serious than friendships, and perhaps even more serious than romances can be. He wants a family, to have someone he can look up to as a parental figure, and to take care of little kiddos that he can call his, but is afraid of being abandoned yet again once he finds them. He isn't impossible to convince, however, as he desperately wants someone to call his family despite his better judgement, and therefore will often see others as family without even realizing it. Adomania is heavily invested in finding these kinds of relationships for him.
( enemies - hard ) — It is very difficult to get Des to hate your character, as he has a very forgiving nature in hopes that others will change their ways. He is far from a push-over, but he won't call others anything more than rivals unless they convince him of a good enough reason to hate. This is usually if anyone tries anything funny with his family, or when they make any abusive/sexual advances towards him without his clear consent.
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